“What are you not now, but wish to become? Take a moment and consider an what you wish to become, or become better, at? What aspects your life are you looking to improve or add to? Take a moment and consider what you would like to do, moving forward with your life…We cannot control everything in our lives, but if we do what we can to become what we wish to be, then happiness should find us receptive. At least that’s been my experience. How about yours?” Philosiblog, First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.